Comments on: Does It Matter What They Think? http://alvinso.com/2010/02/04/does-it-matter-what-they-think/ Mon, 30 Aug 2010 03:50:41 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: jigg http://alvinso.com/2010/02/04/does-it-matter-what-they-think/comment-page-1/#comment-472 jigg Tue, 16 Feb 2010 21:03:09 +0000 http://alvinso.com/?p=629#comment-472 Surprisingly, pretty often, but just because someone has a point doesn't mean that their point super-exceeds my own thoughts. Sometimes, I have a reason for why I do something and just because their criticism makes sense, it doesn't make my reasons wrong either. You just have to be consistent and stick with your own values. It's actually inconsistency in the way we do things that often causes the biggest problems. -ray lee Surprisingly, pretty often, but just because someone has a point doesn’t mean that their point super-exceeds my own thoughts. Sometimes, I have a reason for why I do something and just because their criticism makes sense, it doesn’t make my reasons wrong either. You just have to be consistent and stick with your own values. It’s actually inconsistency in the way we do things that often causes the biggest problems.

-ray lee

]]> By: fiftysvn http://alvinso.com/2010/02/04/does-it-matter-what-they-think/comment-page-1/#comment-464 fiftysvn Fri, 05 Feb 2010 20:09:11 +0000 http://alvinso.com/?p=629#comment-464 jigg how often does it happen where you go "hmm this person may have a point . . . "? jigg how often does it happen where you go “hmm this person may have a point . . . “?

]]> By: jigg http://alvinso.com/2010/02/04/does-it-matter-what-they-think/comment-page-1/#comment-463 jigg Fri, 05 Feb 2010 18:14:40 +0000 http://alvinso.com/?p=629#comment-463 I'm a firm believer in asking for feedback about myself. Anyone who knows me knows that I'm far from being insecure, but it gives me a good idea of how people think and react to me. I think in order for people to have homogeneous and harmonious relationships, open communication is key. Open communication means that anyone can call me out on something and vice versa. Without that kind of honesty, it's hard to quell misunderstandings and establish truth. -ray lee I’m a firm believer in asking for feedback about myself. Anyone who knows me knows that I’m far from being insecure, but it gives me a good idea of how people think and react to me. I think in order for people to have homogeneous and harmonious relationships, open communication is key. Open communication means that anyone can call me out on something and vice versa. Without that kind of honesty, it’s hard to quell misunderstandings and establish truth.

-ray lee

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